Guidelines for prospective Tamil Brahmin bridegrooms who wish to marry: In the course of her quest to find her soul mate, my daughter has been chatting and sometimes meeting prospective bridegrooms in an effort to get to know them better. And many times, she has been sorely disappointed, sometimes by the way the boys showed up, and sometimes by the way they acted. And since I have been with her in her so-called quest, I tend to agree with her opinion and think that it is my duty as a senior citizen to give some advice to the youngsters which may help them to win over the girl they are interested in. So here goes: General physique : As is widely known, every girl is interested in a smart looking, charming boy who looks like a film hero. Everyone may not be good looking, but it is a basic requirement that the boy has a good physique without a beer belly or flabbiness. Therefore boys, without making excuses, do some exercises, hit the gym and try to look hea...